Anxious – Avoidant trap

  • Levine, Amir & Heller, Rachel S. F. (2010): Are you Anxious, Avoidant of Secure? How the science of adult attachment can help you find – and keep – love, s. 153 – 162. Penguin Group, New York. ISBN: 9781529032178.

Benching

Beskyt din indre verden

  • Gibson, Lindsay C. PsyD (2019): Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents, s. 101 – 120. New Harbinger Publications Inc. 5674 Shattuck Avenue, Oakland, CA 94609. ISBN: 9781684032525 (paperback).

Breadcrumbing

Dating

De 5 kærlighedssprog

Deaktivering

Den, der slap væk

Desorganiseret tilknytning

Dissociation

Dit indre barn

  • LePera, Dr. Nicole (2021): How to do the work : recognize your patterns, heal from the past, and create your self, s.121 – 140. HarperCollins Publishers, 195 Broadway, New York. ISBN: 9780063012097 (hardback).
  • Cori, Jasmin Lee (2017): The Emotionally Absent Mother – How to recognize and Heal the Invisible Effects of Childhood Emotional Neglect. The Experiment, East 23rd Street, New York. ISBN: 9781615193820

Ego arbejde

  • LePera, Dr. Nicole (2021): How to do the work : recognize your patterns, heal from the past, and create your self, s.141 – 156. HarperCollins Publishers, 195 Broadway, New York. ISBN: 9780063012097 (hardback).
  • The Holistic Psychologist (2019): How to do Ego Work. https://theholisticpsychologist.com/how-to-do-ego-work/ The Holistic Psychologist. Los Angeles, California.

Ensomhed og tilknytning

Fire grundlæggende reaktioner på trusler

Følelsesmæssigt umodne forældre

  • Gibson, Lindsay C. PsyD (2015): Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, s. 25 – 47 og 67 – 82. New Harbinger Publications Inc. 5674 Shattuck Avenue, Oakland, CA 94609. ISBN: 9781626251700.

Gaslighting

Ghosting

Indlejring i familien

Kommunikation

  • Rosenberg, Marshall B. (2019): Ikkevoldelig kommunikation ”Girafsprog”. Borgens Forlag, Danmark. 3.udgave, 12. Oplag. ISBN: 9788721024543.

Kroppen

Kropssprog

Kærlighedshormonet

Love Bombing

Medafhængighed

Mørke empater

Narcissisme

Oversharing

  • Blackhart, Ginette & Williamson, Jessica & Nelson, Lyndsay. (2015). Social Anxiety in Relation to Self-Control Depletion Following Social Interactions. Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology. 34. 747-773. 10.1521/jscp.2015.34.9.747.
  • Cacioppo, J. T., Cacioppo, S., & Boomsma, D. I. (2014). Evolutionary mechanisms for loneliness. Cognition & emotion, 28(1), 3–21. https://doi.org/10.1080/02699931.2013.837379.
  • John, Leslie & Barasz, Kate & Norton, Michael. (2016). Hiding personal information reveals the worst. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences. 113. 201516868. 10.1073/pnas.1516868113.

People pleasing

Prænatal tilknytning

Red flags

Reparenting

  • LePera, Dr. Nicole (2021): How to do the work : recognize your patterns, heal from the past, and create your self, s.207-224. HarperCollins Publishers, 195 Broadway, New York. ISBN: 9780063012097 (hardback).

Still Face eksperimentet

Store T og lille t

Særligt sensitive

Sæt grænser

Tal med børnene

  • Webb, Jonice (2018): Running on Empty No More, s. 129 – 202. Morgan James Publishing, New York. ISBN: 9781683506737 (paperback).

Tal med forældrene

  • Webb, Jonice (2018): Running on Empty No More, s. 61 – 128. Morgan James Publishing, New York. ISBN: 9781683506737 (paperback).

Tilknytning

  • Levine, Amir & Heller, Rachel S. F. (2010): Are you Anxious, Avoidant of Secure? How the science of adult attachment can help you find – and keep – love, Penguin Group, New York. ISBN: 9781529032178.

Tilknytning og sex

  • Birnbaum, G.E., Reis, H.T. o.a. (2006): When sex is more than just sex; Attachment orientations, sexual experience, and relationship quality. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 91. s. 929-943. USA.
  • The Attachment Project (2020): Your Attachment Style influences your Sex Life (and even casual Sex). https://www.attachmentproject.com/blog/casual-sex-and-attachment-styles/ . The Attachment Project, USA.
  • Zapf, J.L., Greiner, J., & Carroll, J. (2008): Attachment styles and male sex addiction. Sexual Addiction and Compulsitivity, 15. s. 158-175. USA.

Tilknytning og superkræfter

Tilknytningsstile

Tryg tilknytning

  • Levine, Amir & Heller, Rachel S. F. (2010): Are you Anxious, Avoidant of Secure? How the science of adult attachment can help you find – and keep – love, s. 131 – 152. Penguin Group, New York. ISBN: 9781529032178.
  • Briana MacWilliam – Attachment in Adult Relationships (2022): What are the 4 Attachment Styles? A Basic Overview. https://brianamacwilliam.com/2020/03/13/4-attachment-styles/ . Briana MacWilliam, New York, USA.

Undvigende tilknytning

Vagusnerven

Ængstelig tilknytning

  • Levine, Amir & Heller, Rachel S. F. (2010): Are you Anxious, Avoidant of Secure? How the science of adult attachment can help you find – and keep – love, s. 77 – 108. Penguin Group, New York. ISBN: 9781529032178.
  • Briana MacWilliam – Attachment in Adult Relationships (2022): What are the 4 Attachment Styles? A Basic Overview. https://brianamacwilliam.com/2020/03/13/4-attachment-styles/ . Briana MacWilliam, New York, USA.